No matter how much you read, watch, and practice communicating well with your boyfriend, sometimes you’re going to mess up. In this video, I share my gay relationship communication mistakes so that you can learn from me and hopefully not make the same mistakes yourself.
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How to use “I Statements” for Conflict Resolution
There’s one small change that I’ve made to the way I talk with my boyfriend that has made soooooooo much difference. Like, seriously, this one small change is responsible for so many good things. It’s this: Use I Statements
4 Books That Will Help Your Relationship (that you aren’t thinking about)
If you’re trying to build a healthy open relationship or polyamorous relationship, you may have already come across the “big name” resources out there — The Ethical Slut, More Than Two, Multiamor,y, etc. etc. While…
My Top 6 Open Relationship & Polyamory Resources
When I first started exploring open relationships, there were not nearly as many resources as there are today. I’ve read, watched, and listened to dozens and dozens — the good, the bad, and the strange so that you don’t have to — and today I want to share my top 6.
Q&A: I’m anxious with my new open relationship
My first ever gay relationship advice Q&A video! A viewer wrote in an asked about feeling anxious, insecure, or jealous in an open relationship. It’s his first time being in a gay open relationship while…
Is there any good to Grindr and gay hookup apps?
Grindr gets a bad reputation from a lot of gay guys but I think a lot of good can come from Grindr. Today, let’s look at is there any good in Grindr and other gay hookup apps or is Grindr toxic? How you can use Grindr for friendship, and my own story of how a Grindr hookup turned into one of my best friends.
Can gay guys be committed?
Is there a lack of commitment in gay relationships? Are gay guys who want an open relationship scared of commitment? The idea that gay men can’t be committed used to be accusation that anti-LGBT people…
Asking for what you want in a relationship
Asking for what you want and need in a relationship can be SUPER SCARY. If you follow this process though, it might make the experience a bit easier for you (and your boyfriend!)
What do you need in a relationship?
No one likes to be needy but we all do have needs and it’s important that you get what you need in your relationship. That’s what I want to offer today: some help in figuring…
How to use a feelings list for better communication in your relationship
Really intense emotions are often portrayed in the media as sexy and desirable and I mean we want to feel something in a relationship that’s like a big part of the point but really big feelings can get in the way of healthy communication if you’re not careful. If you want better communication in your relationship, I’m going to share the one tool that is most useful for me.
“Boyfriend makes me feel…” What to do.
Have you ever thought “My boyfriend makes me feel so….”? Does he boyfriend make you feel insecure? Jealous? Angry? If so, I’ve got one thing you can do right now to address your issues…. and…